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Dating Don’t: Don't Give Him Your Phone Number at the Club! by Curtisia Monroe
He's hot. You think so, your friends think so, and every other woman in the club is checking him out. You would love to talk to him. And from the looks he keeps giving you, he might feel the same way. A glance his way shows him coming towards you. After a night spent talking, laughing, and dancing, he asks for your phone number. Should you give it to him? No!
Stranger Danger
What do you know about him other than that he makes you laugh, can hold a conversation, and is good looking? Absolutely, nothing important! Does any of that making him trustworthy? Does it make him single? Does it make him safe? In a word, no! So why give him open access to you considering all the things you don’t know about him?
Alcohol Impairment
Have you monitored the number of drinks you’ve had? Even a small amount of alcohol impairs your judgment. How do you know if you’ll feel the same way about this guy once you’re completely clear-headed? While giving out your number seems like a small step, it’s still a step that’s impossible to undo.
The Non-Callback That Keeps Calling Back
If you weren’t clear-headed the night before and are now suffering from buyers’ remorse, how do you go about getting a refund? Suppose he’s calling you and won’t stop despite your less than enthusiastic replies. Can you count on polite manners to make him stop? What if it doesn’t? Some guys are aggressive. To them, even a small thing like giving out your phone number has you practically undressing for them.
Alternative Plans of Action
1. Send Him to Your Profile…Your Safe Profile. While it goes without saying, I’ll say it anyway. As important as it is to be accessible to your friends, it’s even more important to be inaccessible to those who mean you harm. Unfortunately, many people have their whole life available to the world. In their MySpace, Facebook, and other social networking profiles, they have all of their important information (address, phone numbers, school information, employment information, family history, etc) spread out for everyone to see. Don’t do that! If you have done it, change it immediately.
As you likely already know, you can easily use your social networking page to text each other or either on the page or through direct messaging. These days, many smart phones also offer you the ability to receive updates through your phone. This way you won’t lose out on the communication front.
2. Get His Number, and then call him back from a private line. Private lines still exist, you know. Take advantage of it. Make your cell phone private and then you won’t have to worry about calling him back from your own phone. It’s quite possible he won’t want to give you his phone number for the same reasons that you yourself hesitated. If this happens, get his online information. He should be okay with giving you that type of contact for the same reasons you are.
3. Agree to Meet Him Same Bat Time, Same Bat Channel. Why not return to the scene of the crime? In fact, do it a few times before taking the show on the road. Think about it. As long as it’s not his first time coming to that particular club, it’s very likely you will run into some of his friends or even a girl or two who know him that might be able to give you a better glimpse into the guy you want to get to know better. This doesn’t mean you have to give that person the third degree. Just use it as a way to determine if he is as easy going as he portrays. Is there any bad tension between any of them? Are there any rumors flying around? Simply be observant and it might end up paying some big dividends.
Dating should be as safe as you can make it. Done right, you should be able to find the guy of your dreams in a safe and comfortable manner, leaving your concentration on making the right relationship work. Isn't that what we all dream about?
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